How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

The relationship between the bully and bullied

By way of anecdotes of incidents from my own life and theories about what I think these show about the relationship between the bully and bullied, I aim to reveal ways … Continue reading

February 28, 2014 · Leave a comment

Release valve theory

In this chapter I am going to present what I think is the root cause of bullying. It is a learned behaviour which a child picks up very young that … Continue reading

February 27, 2014 · Leave a comment

Tribal theory. Young groupings

In the English Heritage gift shop in Pendennis Castle in Falmouth, I found something I’d dreamt about for a long time. It was a map of ancient Britain, which showed … Continue reading

February 26, 2014 · Leave a comment

Role Power Bullying

As a neat little word has been chosen to identify a certain type of behavior, it would be good now to say what characterizes this behavior. This is because bullying … Continue reading

February 25, 2014 · Leave a comment

Cyber Bullying

Cyber Bullying is another tough one to stop, but following on from role power bullying we can see how much the David and Goliath story can help. David and Goliath … Continue reading

February 24, 2014 · Leave a comment

How to avoid Bullying

There is a very simple thread to the theory I am using to define bullying. Bullying is one specific behaviour, whatever scale it happens on or in whichever style it … Continue reading

February 23, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual

There are pernicious types of bullying that are harder to spot, particularly when they are marked by officialdom. How would you know if a government department, a council, a private … Continue reading

February 22, 2014 · 1 Comment

Decreasing bullying – step by step

One thing I am going to suggest, when taking action to stop your bullies, is to start with them before going over their heads. Have you ever been told by … Continue reading

February 21, 2014 · Leave a comment

Who might bully you?

What I am doing, and would like you to join in with, is looking at bullying with curiosity and interest, to understand this facet of human behaviour. I am going … Continue reading

February 20, 2014 · Leave a comment

Chapter One – Why bullying is simple to spot

By way of anecdotes of incidents from my own life and theories about what I think these show about the relationship between the bully and bullied, I aim to reveal … Continue reading

February 19, 2014 · Leave a comment

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