How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

It’s not personal. It’s really not.

Another aspect of bullying being not person is the way in which a bully will make you feel as if it is you personally that they have got it in … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Characteristics that are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying

Here are the characteristics shown in completely fictional (typical from my childhood) incident above, which are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying: The choice of target … Continue reading

April 2, 2014 · Leave a comment

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others. The only ways … Continue reading

April 1, 2014 · Leave a comment

Why Better to Learn to Be Bully-Proof than to Try To Stop Bullying

One thing about bullying is it takes so many different forms and appears in so many guises, some totally unexpected, that they are difficult to spot. However, if you can … Continue reading

March 14, 2014 · Leave a comment

Group bullying

Groups bully groups, of course. This can even become legalised bullying by that biggest bully group of all: the government. Not any particular government of course. But governments in our … Continue reading

March 13, 2014 · Leave a comment

How to avoid bullying 4: cyber bullying

It was reported in the news recently that young people consider cyber bullying to be a normal part of everyday life. That sounds as if that means that young people … Continue reading

March 10, 2014 · Leave a comment

How to avoid bullying 3

One of my main points is that certain people have a propensity to be bullied. If you look at the Release Valve Theory at the beginning of this book, you … Continue reading

March 9, 2014 · Leave a comment

How to avoid Bullying 2

One of the worst effects of bullying is that you can end up believing what the bullies say. This is purely because, through the scatter gun approach, the bully has … Continue reading

March 8, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 5

As I mentioned earlier, the Citizen’s Advice Bureau has well documented actions by local authorities against members of the population and outlined the responsibilities that the councils do hold, even … Continue reading

March 4, 2014 · Leave a comment

The relationship between the bully and bullied

By way of anecdotes of incidents from my own life and theories about what I think these show about the relationship between the bully and bullied, I aim to reveal ways … Continue reading

February 28, 2014 · Leave a comment

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