How To Be Bully Proof

How to Not Let Bullies Get What They Want

It’s not personal. It’s really not.

Another aspect of bullying being not person is the way in which a bully will make you feel as if it is you personally that they have got it in … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

A rise in reports on biting back at bullies

Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed a rise in stories about people who got the chance to bite back at someone who had bullied them in the … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

The UK and Passive Aggression

One negative trait we share in the UK is passive aggression. There may be traits that you know you don’t have, have discovered and worked yourself out of before or … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Read Chapter 11 on tailgating for a prime example.

When you say what you mean it is likely that well-meaning people will know what you mean. I always notice in newspapers when someone has a personal agenda, they will … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading

April 10, 2014 · Leave a comment

The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”

The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus: Hitting back is … Continue reading

April 9, 2014 · Leave a comment

Characteristics that are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying

Here are the characteristics shown in completely fictional (typical from my childhood) incident above, which are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying: The choice of target … Continue reading

April 2, 2014 · Leave a comment

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others. The only ways … Continue reading

April 1, 2014 · Leave a comment

We all have an ego

We all have an ego. However your ego can get in the way when you are being bullied. Imagine hearing whatever a bully said and thinking to yourself ‘so what?’. … Continue reading

March 20, 2014 · Leave a comment

Humility is a way out of being bullied

It worth accepting that it is inevitable that parents are going to be annoyed, frustrated, thwarted or aggravated in some way and it may as well be said here that … Continue reading

March 19, 2014 · Leave a comment

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