How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

It’s not personal. It’s really not.

Another aspect of bullying being not person is the way in which a bully will make you feel as if it is you personally that they have got it in … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

The Release Valve Theory continued and how it related to me

This is the moment when I discovered my ‘release valve’ theory. The release valve is, in my thinking, when someone learns from an early age to try to release tension … Continue reading

March 17, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 6

3. The council mounted fees on the individual such as use of internal legal people, use of courts (which were not courts of law) use of solicitors, private bailiffs, the … Continue reading

March 5, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 5

As I mentioned earlier, the Citizen’s Advice Bureau has well documented actions by local authorities against members of the population and outlined the responsibilities that the councils do hold, even … Continue reading

March 4, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 4

Therein lies our first clue: Just because someone says they are not responsible, does not mean they should not be responsible. Go back now to any other form of bullying … Continue reading

March 3, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 3

Council Corruption The CAB has produced documents which show how almost half the UK’s local authorities have been acting outside the law and in a heavy handed fashion towards citizens … Continue reading

March 2, 2014 · Leave a comment

Bullying by an authority or organisation against an individual – phase 2

This is something that the Civil Service should be doing, but of course we all know they are simply pushing pens and paper around Whitehall and drowning their lack of … Continue reading

March 1, 2014 · Leave a comment

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Not Accepting Yourself Completely is Not Accepting Yourself At All

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has changed? For example, when i was at school, people used to make fun of a mole on my left cheek. However, i grew to appreciate […]

How to Keep Your Power to Fight Addiction

How to Keep Your Power to Fight Addiction

If you put anything to do with addiction into a search engine, the results will focus on the individual and their  presumed disorder. However, you did not see statistics about how many people are addicted to cabbage or water at all. Therefore, where are the articles talking about what is addictive and why? In his […]

I Am Not Being Derogatory

I Am Not Being Derogatory

In light of the frequent mass shootings happening in America, the way the right wing has handed the idea of “free speech” to the masses as a license to “do and say what you like and damned anyone who tries to stop you” is worrying. In other words, communication, which describes a two-way discussion involving […]

Why are We Letting Irresponsible People Control Communication?

Why are We Letting Irresponsible People Control Communication?

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How an Inflated Ego Deceives You

How an Inflated Ego Deceives You

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