Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour
What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading →
The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”
The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus: Hitting back is … Continue reading →
Characteristics that are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying
Here are the characteristics shown in completely fictional (typical from my childhood) incident above, which are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying: The choice of target … Continue reading →
The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature
The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others. The only ways … Continue reading →
We all have an ego
We all have an ego. However your ego can get in the way when you are being bullied. Imagine hearing whatever a bully said and thinking to yourself ‘so what?’. … Continue reading →
More about The Release Valve Theory
This gave me power over the situation. I had a choice, which was to either to not react to the tension by diving straight into my work or if it … Continue reading →
The Release Valve Theory continued and how it related to me
This is the moment when I discovered my ‘release valve’ theory. The release valve is, in my thinking, when someone learns from an early age to try to release tension … Continue reading →
Group bullying
Groups bully groups, of course. This can even become legalised bullying by that biggest bully group of all: the government. Not any particular government of course. But governments in our … Continue reading →
How to avoid bullying 4: cyber bullying
It was reported in the news recently that young people consider cyber bullying to be a normal part of everyday life. That sounds as if that means that young people … Continue reading →
How to avoid bullying 3
One of my main points is that certain people have a propensity to be bullied. If you look at the Release Valve Theory at the beginning of this book, you … Continue reading →
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