Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour
What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading →
The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”
The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus: Hitting back is … Continue reading →
The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature
The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others. The only ways … Continue reading →
We all have an ego
We all have an ego. However your ego can get in the way when you are being bullied. Imagine hearing whatever a bully said and thinking to yourself ‘so what?’. … Continue reading →
Humility is a way out of being bullied
It worth accepting that it is inevitable that parents are going to be annoyed, frustrated, thwarted or aggravated in some way and it may as well be said here that … Continue reading →
More about The Release Valve Theory
This gave me power over the situation. I had a choice, which was to either to not react to the tension by diving straight into my work or if it … Continue reading →
The Release Valve Theory continued and how it related to me
This is the moment when I discovered my ‘release valve’ theory. The release valve is, in my thinking, when someone learns from an early age to try to release tension … Continue reading →
Why Better to Learn to Be Bully-Proof than to Try To Stop Bullying
One thing about bullying is it takes so many different forms and appears in so many guises, some totally unexpected, that they are difficult to spot. However, if you can … Continue reading →
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