How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading

April 10, 2014 · Leave a comment

The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”

The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus: Hitting back is … Continue reading

April 9, 2014 · Leave a comment

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature

The problem is, bullying is a trait of human nature which was learned by people, probably way back, to snatch booty and to control and dominate others. The only ways … Continue reading

April 1, 2014 · Leave a comment

We all have an ego

We all have an ego. However your ego can get in the way when you are being bullied. Imagine hearing whatever a bully said and thinking to yourself ‘so what?’. … Continue reading

March 20, 2014 · Leave a comment

Humility is a way out of being bullied

It worth accepting that it is inevitable that parents are going to be annoyed, frustrated, thwarted or aggravated in some way and it may as well be said here that … Continue reading

March 19, 2014 · Leave a comment

More about The Release Valve Theory

This gave me power over the situation. I had a choice, which was to either to not react to the tension by diving straight into my work or if it … Continue reading

March 18, 2014 · Leave a comment

The Release Valve Theory continued and how it related to me

This is the moment when I discovered my ‘release valve’ theory. The release valve is, in my thinking, when someone learns from an early age to try to release tension … Continue reading

March 17, 2014 · Leave a comment

Why Better to Learn to Be Bully-Proof than to Try To Stop Bullying

One thing about bullying is it takes so many different forms and appears in so many guises, some totally unexpected, that they are difficult to spot. However, if you can … Continue reading

March 14, 2014 · Leave a comment

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What Being Triggered by Greta Thunberg Really Tells You

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When a Swedish, 16 year old girl with Asperger’s Syndrome becomes a high profile environmental activist, you can bet she is pushing many people’s buttons. Therefore how come, as Joseph de Maistre says in August 1811 about Russia’s new parliament, (English translation thanks to Wikipedia) “every country has the government it deserves?” Is it that […]

Not Accepting Yourself Completely is Not Accepting Yourself At All

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has changed? For example, when i was at school, people used to make fun of a mole on my left cheek. However, i grew to appreciate […]

How to Keep Your Power to Fight Addiction

How to Keep Your Power to Fight Addiction

If you put anything to do with addiction into a search engine, the results will focus on the individual and their  presumed disorder. However, you did not see statistics about how many people are addicted to cabbage or water at all. Therefore, where are the articles talking about what is addictive and why? In his […]

I Am Not Being Derogatory

I Am Not Being Derogatory

In light of the frequent mass shootings happening in America, the way the right wing has handed the idea of “free speech” to the masses as a license to “do and say what you like and damned anyone who tries to stop you” is worrying. In other words, communication, which describes a two-way discussion involving […]