How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

The Difference Between a Negative Response and Bad Treatment

Being treated badly by another person, especially if they claim to care about you, is very upsetting indeed. This experience can reel in our minds for days, navigate our dreams, … Continue reading

September 19, 2021 · Leave a comment

Social Media Unleashes an Epidemic of Negging Online

We need to understand and define human behaviour and draw patterns to learn how to respond to it for ourselves, our families, our celebrities and the general wider society so these damaging types of behaviour evolve with the rest of us.

January 18, 2020 · 8 Comments

Not Accepting Yourself Completely is Not Accepting Yourself At All

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has … Continue reading

September 7, 2019 · Leave a comment

It’s not personal. It’s really not.

Another aspect of bullying being not person is the way in which a bully will make you feel as if it is you personally that they have got it in … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

A rise in reports on biting back at bullies

Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed a rise in stories about people who got the chance to bite back at someone who had bullied them in the … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · 3 Comments

The UK and Passive Aggression

One negative trait we share in the UK is passive aggression. There may be traits that you know you don’t have, have discovered and worked yourself out of before or … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Read Chapter 11 on tailgating for a prime example.

When you say what you mean it is likely that well-meaning people will know what you mean. I always notice in newspapers when someone has a personal agenda, they will … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading

April 10, 2014 · Leave a comment

The difference between “hitting back” and “reacting”

The difference between “hitting back” (which they don’t want and will stop them) and “reacting” (which is what they want and they will keep going) is thus: Hitting back is … Continue reading

April 9, 2014 · Leave a comment

Characteristics that are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying

Here are the characteristics shown in completely fictional (typical from my childhood) incident above, which are likely to appear in any form or scale of bullying: The choice of target … Continue reading

April 2, 2014 · Leave a comment

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