How To Be Bully Proof

How to Be Free of Bullies

Could Algorithms Censor Voices of the Neurodiverse?

I think communication is multi-directional, expecting a response and then responding to it. Safe and inclusive spaces for communication provide feedback or reply directly so the original speaker can update or adjust their message. Communication brings people together and unites them behind the same information

January 23, 2024 · Leave a comment

Turning Bullying Experiences into Comedy With Confidence

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has … Continue reading

November 15, 2023 · Leave a comment

The Difference Between a Negative Response and Bad Treatment

Being treated badly by another person, especially if they claim to care about you, can be very upsetting. This experience can reel in our minds for days and navigate our … Continue reading

September 19, 2021 · Leave a comment

Social Media Unleashes an Epidemic of Negging Online

We need to understand and define human behaviour and draw patterns to learn how to respond to it for ourselves, our families, our celebrities and the general wider society so these damaging types of behaviour evolve with the rest of us.

January 18, 2020 · 8 Comments

Not Accepting Yourself Completely is Not Accepting Yourself At All

The amount of self-acceptance you have could be linked to how bully-proof you are. If you look back at bullying experiences that you have overcome, what would you say has … Continue reading

September 7, 2019 · Leave a comment

It’s not personal. It’s really not.

Another aspect of bullying being not person is the way in which a bully will make you feel as if it is you personally that they have got it in … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

A rise in reports on biting back at bullies

Is it just me, or has anyone else noticed a rise in stories about people who got the chance to bite back at someone who had bullied them in the … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · 3 Comments

The UK and Passive Aggression

One negative trait we share in the UK is passive aggression. There may be traits that you know you don’t have, have discovered and worked yourself out of before or … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Read Chapter 11 on tailgating for a prime example.

When you say what you mean it is likely that well-meaning people will know what you mean. I always notice in newspapers when someone has a personal agenda, they will … Continue reading

May 16, 2017 · Leave a comment

Bullies will face a less satisfying response to their bullying behaviour

What is true for one person is valid. It is their point of view. We all have a point of view that is true and how we see the world. … Continue reading

April 10, 2014 · Leave a comment

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Why Divide and Conquer is All About Politics

I keep writing boring poems about politics. I am processing, trying to get my head around a beast of an idea. I remember being at sixth form college in 1987 and there was a debating society, which tackled the thorny issue of fox hunting, a popular activity in Surrey at that time. Today, it would […]

How and why clear inclusive communication is possible and easy to do

How and why clear inclusive communication is possible and easy to do

The following story illustrates how a visual or creative person might understand a new rule compared to someone who has adapted to learn by rote. Today we are told what to do, but we are not told why. Reasoning has now gone and if you do it you will not be catered for. On any […]

Government Overreach taking us back to medieval times

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Lost Documents from the Early Days of Christendom

Lost Documents from the Early Days of Christendom

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How Large Language Models use AI to manipulate user content such as X Community Notes

I have been looking into how certain Community Notes accounts seem to have suspiciously high ratings and their behaviours. No one person can be that aligned with truth to be able to get useful votes on everything they write. Are algorithims and AI at play here? Are these accounts machine generated? I have noticed duplicate […]